This is new to me also. I guess it's about time to jump on the bandwagon. I guess I've been with these overwhelming feelings of becoming a dad and I have no idea where to start. I guess your feelings of needing to leave a legacy behind for your kids is the biggest thing. How will I teach them right from wrong, when to speak and when to listen, and how to make their own decisions? I guess the whole potty training and walking thing comes first, or does it?.......